We lost David's father, Mac, on Tuesday. A little over a year ago, he went out for a three-mile run in the morning, and was in the hospital that evening with an eventual diagnosis of lung cancer. Mac was a strong, fit, smart man, and he was never a smoker.
I only knew Mac for a few years. He was always kind and gentle. A bit eccentric. He loved puns and puzzles. His garden is amazing. He was very focused; he would walk past a purple elephant without noticing it if the thing he wanted was behind the elephant. I was surprised at how often he reminded me of David.
We do feel blessed that we had a year after his diagnosis. Mac got to see two of his children get married this year. He read as much as he possibly could. He got to visit with so much of his family at least one more time. It wasn't enough, but it was something.
We miss you, Mac.
I'm so sorry to hear that. It sounds like he was a wonderful man and will be much missed. Take good care of each other - I'll be sending warm thoughts your way.
Posted by: Ariel | March 12, 2008 at 12:41 PM
I am so sorry. Like you said, you had a good year with him. My great uncle died of lung cancer also - he was never a smoker either. Sad.
Posted by: stacey | March 12, 2008 at 12:52 PM
So sorry for your loss! Sure was great that he got to see his children marry though. Thinking of you and David! *hugs*
Posted by: kelly | March 12, 2008 at 01:03 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful man.
Posted by: kim | March 12, 2008 at 01:29 PM
So sorry for your loss, and for David. I've been there too - lost my dad to lung cancer 9 years ago.
Posted by: Denise | March 12, 2008 at 01:31 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, Kristy.
Posted by: Linda | March 12, 2008 at 01:31 PM
My thoughts are with you and your family... so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a great guy.
Posted by: ann | March 12, 2008 at 01:58 PM
I'm so sorry. :-(
Posted by: Beth S. | March 12, 2008 at 01:59 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and David.
Posted by: Christy | March 12, 2008 at 02:40 PM
Oh, Kristy, I'm so very sorry for you, David, and his whole family. Cancer sucks.
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during what is sure to be a difficult time.
Posted by: Liz K. | March 12, 2008 at 02:57 PM
I'm so sorry to hear - he sounds like he was quite a special man! And lucky for you, you have his son. :) Take care.
Posted by: Stacey | March 12, 2008 at 03:13 PM
{{{{{{{{big hugs}}}}}}}}}}}} <== for you both
Posted by: Jessica | March 12, 2008 at 03:29 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a wonderful man and I know he will be missed as much as he is remembered. Take care.
Posted by: Deborah | March 12, 2008 at 05:19 PM
Oh, I'm so sorry. Lung Cancer is just brutal--both my grandfather and my only uncle died from it, and it's therefore one of the diseases I HATE. It sounds like Mac had a great year, though . . . even if he deserved a lot more of them. I'm just so sorry.
Posted by: --Deb | March 12, 2008 at 06:24 PM
I'm terribly sorry for your loss.
Posted by: bea | March 12, 2008 at 09:19 PM
I'm so sorry. Focused eccentricity -- he sounds like an interesting guy and the type of person I like to have for a friend.
Posted by: Dave | March 12, 2008 at 09:41 PM
So sorry.
Posted by: amy | March 12, 2008 at 10:50 PM
Hi everyone. Thanks so much for all the warm wishes and comments. And thanks, Kristy, for everything.
Posted by: David | March 12, 2008 at 11:23 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you, David, and family.
Posted by: Sharon | March 13, 2008 at 09:23 AM
I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and David.
Posted by: Christine | March 13, 2008 at 09:50 AM
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your extended family.
Posted by: Cynthia | March 13, 2008 at 10:09 AM
So Sorry. But I am happy for the time you had. Remember the good stuff. {{{{hugs}}}}
Posted by: Stacey | March 13, 2008 at 10:47 AM
Condolences on your loss.
Posted by: Ina | March 13, 2008 at 11:06 AM
So sorry to hear about your loss.
Posted by: Oiyi | March 13, 2008 at 12:46 PM
I am so sorry for you and your husband's loss. Best wishes to all of your family.
Posted by: tiennie | March 13, 2008 at 01:14 PM
so sorry Kristy. my best to you and your husband and his whole family.
Posted by: Mintyfresh | March 13, 2008 at 02:48 PM
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and David.
Posted by: Heather | March 13, 2008 at 04:08 PM
I am sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and David.
Posted by: Heather | March 13, 2008 at 04:09 PM
So sorry to hear about this, Kristy.
Posted by: Stella | March 13, 2008 at 04:50 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending prayers to you & David.
Posted by: Kim | March 13, 2008 at 06:14 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I know how hard it is to loose a parent.
Please give my condolences to your husband and his family.
Posted by: Kirsten | March 13, 2008 at 11:00 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss - he sounds like a wonderful man.
Posted by: Ruth | March 14, 2008 at 01:15 AM
My sympathy for your family's loss.
Posted by: Jenni | March 14, 2008 at 08:20 AM
I'm so, *so* sorry to read this. Best thoughts to you and David, and his whole family.
Posted by: Amy | March 15, 2008 at 11:04 AM
I'm very sorry to hear your loss, I lost my own grandfather on the same day due to lung cancer. He was the healthiest man I've ever known, never smoked, and ended up getting a tumour wrapped around his heart. I would say that he too had a good year, he had christmas with all of his children, had plenty of fresh air and loved ones around him, but it is never enough time. We always lose the best ones too soon.
Posted by: Mel | March 16, 2008 at 01:52 PM
I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. My very best wishes to you and David.
Posted by: Risa | March 17, 2008 at 10:23 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you, David and David's family as you go through this difficult time. HUGS!
Posted by: Jean | March 17, 2008 at 01:22 PM
I'm just reading this now and can't say anything that hasn't been said already, but my thoughts are with you.
Posted by: elise | March 17, 2008 at 04:05 PM
xx
Posted by: Nora | March 18, 2008 at 05:53 PM